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Facing Domestic Abuse or Domestic Violence
Understanding Domestic Abuse
Domestic abuse is not just physical violence—it can take many forms, including:
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Physical Abuse – Hitting, slapping, choking, or any form of physical harm.
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Emotional & Psychological Abuse – Insults, threats, intimidation, humiliation, or isolation.
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Financial Abuse – Controlling money, preventing you from working, or taking your earnings.
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Coercive Control - Manipulation, monitoring, excessive jealousy, or restricting movements.
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Sexual Abuse – Forced or coerced sexual acts without your consent.
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Abuse can happen in any relationship, regardless of age, background, or culture.
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No matter the situation, you are not to blame and have the right to seek help.

How We Can Help You
1. Immediate Support and Information
Guidance on how to recognize abuse and understand your rights.
Steps you can take to stay safe, whether you are leaving or still in the situation.
Practical advice on legal protection, housing, financial independence, and emotional recovery.
2. Connecting You with the Right Help
We will help you find appropriate organizations, shelters, legal resources, and support groups in your country.
Assistance is available in any language. If English is not your primary language, we will work to provide help in a way that best suits you.
3. Personal Responses
If you need one-on-one guidance, you can request a personal reply via email.
Every message is treated with respect and confidentiality. You will never be pressured or judged—only supported.
4. Real Stories: Voices of Survival
Hearing the experiences of other women can be powerful. Below are real stories from survivors who found the strength to escape abusive situations.
Sophie’s Story
"For years, I believed I had to endure my husband’s abuse because I had nowhere to go. One night, he became violent, and I knew I couldn’t stay any longer. With the help of a friend, I packed my things and left while he was at work. A domestic violence shelter took me in and helped me rebuild my life. Today, I’m free and stronger than ever."
Maria’s Story
"I was financially dependent on my partner, and he controlled every aspect of my life. He monitored my phone, isolated me from my family, and convinced me I was worthless. One day, I secretly contacted a women’s support group. They helped me plan my escape, secure emergency housing, and access legal protection. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but I now have my life back."
If you have a story to share, your experience may help another woman find the courage to seek help. You can submit your story anonymously through our contact page.
Legal Information: Knowing Your Rights
While we are not lawyers, we provide general information on legal protections in many countries. It is always best to seek advice from a legal professional or a domestic violence organization in your area.
Legal Protections for Victims of Domestic Abuse
Restraining Orders/Protection Orders – Available in most countries, these orders legally prevent an abuser from contacting or approaching you.
Emergency Police Assistance – In many places, police can remove an abuser from the home if they pose a danger.
Housing Rights – Some countries provide emergency housing or allow you to remain in your home while the abuser is removed.
Child Custody Protections – Courts often prioritize the safety of children in cases of domestic abuse.
How to Document Abuse for Legal Purposes
If you are considering legal action, it is important to gather evidence:
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Keep a diary of abusive incidents, including dates, times, and descriptions.
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Take photos of injuries or property damage.
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Save messages, emails, and voicemails that contain threats or abuse.
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Seek medical records if you have been physically harmed.
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Have a trusted person aware of your situation who can support your claims if needed.
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If you need legal assistance, we can help connect you with professionals who specialize in domestic abuse cases.
Safety Planning: Securing Your Future
If you are still in an abusive situation, planning is essential. Below are strategies to help you stay safe and prepare for leaving when the time is right.
1. Securing a Safe Room in Your Home
If possible, identify a room with a lock where you can go in case of danger.
Keep a charged phone in this room to call for help.
Avoid rooms with weapons or hard surfaces (e.g., the kitchen or bathroom).
2. Planning Your Escape
Keep important documents (passport, ID, bank details) hidden but accessible.
Store an emergency bag with money, clothes, medication, and essentials.
Arrange a code word with a trusted friend or family member that signals you need help.
Identify safe places you can go (friends, family, shelters).
Plan how you will leave (public transport, taxi, trusted contact).
3. Digital Safety Tips
Clear your browser history after searching for help.
Use a private or incognito window when researching escape plans.
Change your passwords regularly and use two-factor authentication.
Turn off location services on your phone if your abuser monitors you.